Michael Rosenfeld · Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences 2019 · cross-sectional survey · n=?

Disintermediating your friends: How online dating in the United States displaces other ways of meeting

Cited 425 times in the scientific literature.

Level 4 - case-series / case-control

Level 4 by design analogy (cross-sectional survey data).

OpenAlex W2969738163 · doi:10.1073/pnas.1908630116 · record verified 2026-08-29

What was done

Data from a 2017 nationally representative survey of American adults were analyzed to determine how heterosexual couples in the United States meet and how these patterns have changed over time, specifically evaluating the role of online meeting versus traditional third-party mediation.

What was found

The abstract reports no numerical figures or percentages. It states that meeting online became the primary way heterosexual couples meet in the United States, surpassing introductions through friends around 2013. Among couples meeting online, the proportion who met through third-party mediation has declined over time, displacing the historical role of family and friends.

Why it matters

This study documents a fundamental shift in partner selection in the United States, showing that digital platforms have largely displaced traditional kinship and friendship networks as relationship intermediaries.

Limits

The abstract does not report the sample size, response rate, or specific quantitative metrics. The findings are restricted to heterosexual couples in the United States, limiting generalizability to other relationship types or international contexts. The analysis relies on retrospective self-reported survey data, which is vulnerable to recall bias.

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